John MacDonald

64

5'10"

Vocational Rehabilitation Counselor

Lebanon

United States

I was divorced on 2000. God said it is not good for man to be alone, and I am tired of being alone. I am most attracted to Latin women (SO SEXY!), so thought I would try here. Hablo espagnol muuy, muy pocuito, lo siento mucho.

I find that another Saturday night rolls around leaving me with this increasingly difficult dilemma: do I drag myself out to some singles bar, or stay home with my dogs? Let’s see…meeting women who have become accustomed to cheesy pick-up lines and bad wine vs. puppy snacks with TV sitcoms. Droning conversations with mildly intoxicated personalities vs. talking to my pets. At least they listen…and they understand about as much as a barfly.

I am fully aware that chemistry isn’t always mutual or immediate and that one has to kiss a lot of frogs along the roadway to finding true love. However, I am not a serial or recreational dater who wishes to go out with a different woman every night of the week–my free time is precious to me and my goal is to meet a select few ladies, one of whom will, hopefully, become my best friend and life mate. After being divorced 10-years, where does a guy go to meet serious-relationship-minded ladies? Provided you are of the same mindset, if I am someone you would like to meet, lunch, a cup of coffee, or a glass of wine would be a nice start.

You should know that I am a hopeless romantic. Not always the long walks on the beach after I wine you and dine you type, I prefer the simple things: like lazy Sunday mornings; comfortable silences; kisses that linger for hours; necking on the couch; a day touring wine country, art museums, or the city; and giving red roses. I am independent, smart, humorous, profanely monogamous, painfully honest, fiercely loyal, passionate, and shy at first. But, under certain circumstances, I have a hidden streak of wildness. In fact, with the right woman I can take wild to another level!!

I am searching for an emotionally available, emancipated woman with personal integrity, stability, and inner strength. I want a relationship where we are each others best friend and exclusive lover without being taken for granted. I hope to find a woman with whom I can race our walkers or wheelchairs to the beach when we grow old.

Accountability, honesty, fidelity and loyalty are values I hold dear. I would much rather know and speak the truth, even if it hurts, than hear lies. Once personal credibility is lost, what’s left? We reap what we sow and broken trust rarely mends completely.

Only time can determine compatibility. I feel that any quality relationship needs to consist of trust, respect, good communication, compromise, and friendship. You need to be able to share likes and dislikes and enjoy the ride of life together. Honesty is very important in any relationship and is very important to me. I want a woman who clearly **communicates** rather than expects me to read her mind because she feels that I should know what she is thinking — I lost my ability to read minds long ago. Ask any of my ex-girlfriends

I am a Born Again christian, and would like the same: Another true believer, not just a woman born to a christian family. Would prefer to be with a woman who goes not have children, but that is not mandatory if the chemistry is right.