I’ve spent some time on ColombianCupid.com and it seems like every girl I talk to is either selling pictures, wanting a mutual beneficial relationship or when I talk to a girl and seems normal at first we talk a couple days move to WhatsApp have a video call I see she real then she can’t pay her phone, sick relative in the hospital can’t pay her rent, family lives far away and she wants to visit family and do on and one. If I send money then immediately something else happens and she needs more money. If I don’t send money then she say okay but she becomes distant then all of a sudden I’m not the guy for her she was wrong about me.
I just talked to a girl and I was like I understood you want a man to pay for things and I will if we’re in and exclusive relationship but I don’t send money to women I just met and she said then sorry then I don’t talk to men I just meet Women
really look for a man who knows how to fix a man thinks he’s a provider, and if that’s not who you are, then don’t go looking for a Latina
I guess what I’m getting at is if I go with your company will it be the same thing. I will meet women I fall in love with her quickly, they seem to fall in love with me quickly but if I’m not willing to send money anytime she has a financial need it won’t work with Colombian women.
As an American this feels more like a sugar daddy relationship so not sure if it’s a cultural misunderstanding. I just don’t want to be one of 10 other men all in love with a women sending money to her, I don’t want to be scammed. I just think paying for meals, activities gifts for birthday, Christmas etc is different then being a financial support for someone you have know for just 1 or 2 weeks
So, if you able to explain what Colombian women are looking for I’d appreciate it? (I understand Colombian women will be looking at what I can offe, what opportunities I can offer but does this mean I need to be their cash machine after just meeting them, I have heard things are changing in Colombia and women expect iPhones and expensive gifts money even after just meeting them so maybe the answer is I need to be their financial resource even if we just met). I apologize for rambling on.
– Stephan
Colombiacupid is not representative for Colombian Women. This website is full of Scammers, in most cases its men hiding behind the fake profiles.
Do not send them any more money.
There are no verifications, screening whatsoever..
These Scammers are just about taking advantage of foreign guys, and I repeat in most cases its guys that hide behind the profiles.
Colombian women seeking a foreign partner.
If she is real, she is mostly from the lowest social classes of Colombia ( slums ) mostly of a lot of kids. There are also many Colombian boyfriends that use these girlfriends in order to get money from several guys.
Always remember, if you are sending them money, you are not the only one sending them money. Most send them money every month, or even week. About 100-200 per week on average and they sometimes have about 5-10 guys at the same time. This is like a business for them.
Minimum wage in Colombia is around 300 dollars ( per month ) and about 30 % of working Colombians are on minimum wage and over 50% earn even less…
A decent Colombian woman would never ask you for money after exchanging some messages online. And yes, decent Colombian women do also exist. Just these kinds of dating sites like “Colombiancupid” are just full of scammers and the worst Colombian women the country has.
They are just about money, they are not interested in any kind of relationship.
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