Trevor

39

6 feet

Teacher and Writer

Montreal

Canada

I am far from a childish or frivolous in any way and am a friend whom others often rely on for counsel and support and a pillar in a very tightly-knit neighbourhood. I have a steady and unspectacular job teaching ESL here, and though I could be talked away from it (Montreal) that prospect seems a painful idea. I am completing my third book of poetry lastly, as well. It’s my best so far.

I take care of myself and have taken care of myself quite well for most of my life, but am entering a new period of confidence and dynamism during which a presence of support in my work; in balancing and teaching writing etc… feels like it could be the elixir that puts things over the top. I can tend to get disorganized and lost in my thoughts often and deeply appreciate being sternly reminded I am doing so when it happens, as long as that doesn’t verge into cruelty or anything. I also would hope that whoever I end up with has hobbies, passions, and employment of her own, at least initially 😉 and that I could mutually complement her in whatever it she needed emotional or physical assistance in. I talk quite a bit but also deeply know when to shut up, and am a very good, if sometimes too focused and intense listener. I never lie or manipulate and whatever minor traces of anger I had in the past. I also would deeply like to have a child or two over the next decade at some point, that is very important to me. I don’t think now is quite the time yet, but I’d have to take it if it somehow came along 🙂