Patrick

76

5' 11"

semi-retired Registured Nurse; drummer in a band

Bend

Colombia

My last serious relationship ended 20 years ago and rather than live dangerously in frivolous and meaningless relationships,  I have chosen to remain single and celibate.  I have been searching for a woman who wants love and family as much as I do. I am a man who believes that love is friendship caught on fire and I want to devote the rest of my life to making my beloved, who I am looking for here, the Queen of my heart. I have been cheated on in the past, so I understand the pain of infidelity and will never hurt my beloved in such a way. To me, family is everything and the only thing. I am a very romantic man and  believe in the importance of wooing my spouse every day of our lives. If you want to be swept off your feet romantically everyday, then I am your man.

First of all, I want a woman to whom the idea of infidelity is not even a consideration for any reason. I believe that love, while a beautiful and valid emotion, gains it’s strength by being a conscious choice of the will. In other words, when I say ”I love you” to a woman, the implication is that my love is unconditional and the storms of emotions that can cause a shipwreck of emotional love will never be able to crash and destroy my choice to love. It is an act of will as well as my soul forming a permanent bond with her soul. These are the things I also want from my beloved. I want her to cherish my love and devotion to her. I want her to be as willing to give in love as she is to take in love.