5 Things you should never do while dating Latina Women online if you are interested in a serious family-oriented relationship.
1. Revealing everything about your financial situation and other personal details.
This is the most important part. If you are wealthy do not mention anything about your income or your business in your profile or while you communicate with Latina Women Online.
Make sure a couple of months pass and you have met her in real life until you decide to reveal details about your financial situation.
Most Latin American countries have weak economies and any many Latina Women struggle to get by or have serious money issues and debts.
Therefore many Latina women are seeking foreign men for some financial gain.
If you are interested in a serious long-lasting relationship you want to make sure that the girl is actually interested in you as a person and not just in your money.
Therefore you should be 100% discreet about your financial situation at the beginning.
Wealthier Latin men know that and do not reveal details about their financial situation in the first months of the relationship, in order to check if the girl is actually interested in them as a person and not just in their money. Some Latin men even pretend to be poor at the beginning.
Many American or European men tend to reveal everything about their private life and financial situation, they even mention it in their online dating profiles. Their intention is to impress Latina Women and to appear more interesting for them.
By doing that they just attract “the wrong kind of Latina Women”.
An other reason why you shouldn´t reveal details about your financial situation is to protect yourself.
At normal dating sites you never know with which kind of Latina Woman you are dealing with.
Some Latin girls that are looking for men online even work together with criminal groups.
Their intention is to use the young Latin girls as a tool to obtain money from wealthy foreign men.
The money that is being sent by the Gringo is divided among all members of the gang.
Latin Girls that work for criminal groups are also interested in getting as many personal details from you as possible, in order to blackmail you when they get the chance.
Some criminal groups even kidnap Gringos, to make them withdraw the maximum amount from their bank account every day until the account is empty, once he arrives in the country in order to visit the Latin girl that he met online.
2. Visiting your Latina in her country all by yourself.
While some countries like Costa Rica, Chile or Argentina are relatively safe to visit, there are still many locations in Latin America that are just not perfectly safe to visit, if you are a non-Latino or experienced 3rd world traveler.
In order to meet pre-screened marriage-minded Latin girls in Colombia we recommend our Personal Matchmaking Service.
3. Sending your Latina money whenever she asks you to.
If she demands you to send money immediately or after a couple of weeks, that is always a red flag.
Some Latin Women will even demand regular monthly financial support, even before meeting you in real life.
We strongly do not recommend to give any Latin girl (or just anyone) monthly financial support, especially if you haven´t even met her in real life.
In other words: Do not send them money at all.
If your Latin lady comes up with some BS story and asks you to send her money,
tell her that at the moment you are in a difficult financial situation and you can not send her money at the moment.
If she is serious about the relationship with you, she will still be interested in you.
Trust me, you don´t want to engage with greedy, unemployed Latinas from the lowest Latin American social classes anyway.
If you want to send your Latin Woman some money now and then that´s up to you, but keep in mind that you probably are not the only guy sending her money.
Decent Latin Women, that are interested in a real relationship, will not ask you for money.
4. Letting her control you.
Some Latina Women are extremely jealous and controlling. Once they have found a Gringo that pays attention to them, they will do everything in order to prevent him to contact other Latinas.
Ok, Latinas tend to be more jealous than “Western Women” in general, but extreme jealousy and control is just insane.
These kind of Latinas will demand all your passwords ( Facebook, Email, whatsapp ect.) from you and chat with you day and night to control every aspect of your life.
Make sure to make her understand that you won´t play that game, before things get out of hand.
That might be common sense, but there are many men, that are willing to do ANYTHING in order to “win her trust”, but the thing is that they will never be able to really win her trust because these kind of women are not mentally sane.
5. Marrying your Latina as soon as possible.
Again, this might be common sense, but many American men that are seeking Latina Women for marriage tend to marry the first Latina that gives them attention online as soon as possible.
You should take your time and investigate your Latina thoroughly and also consider other options before even considering the next step.
You should investigate following key elements:
– Does she meet your criteria ( Physical appearance, age, education, values, qualities, personality ect.)
– Is she actually interested in you as a person or just in your money ?
– Doe she have kids ?
– Are you sure you want to give financial support or even adopt her kids and live with them in your country,
if you could find a Latin Woman without kids?
– What are your requirements for your Latin Bride ?
( Do you require her to do all chores and to cook for you ? )
– Do you want her to be “the new mom” for your already existing kids?
– Do you require her to work in your country ?
– Is she willing to do that ?
The best way to find out is to invite her to your country and live with her for a couple of weeks / months.
Before marriage make sure that you contact a good lawyer in order to set up a bulletproof prenup in order to protect your assets.
This should be always a must, especially when considering marriage with a woman from a foreign country.
Some Latin girls will pretend to be hardworking, loyal and sincere at the beginning but after will reveal her true nature.
If you are looking for an alternative to American / European women, countries like Colombia are absolutely worth visiting.
The single men who are going to Colombia by themselves commonly get in contact with “black sheeps” goldgiggers, women who are not interested in a relationship and just looking for money.
The false information on the internet and on youtube is of the reasons why single men are traveling all the time to Colombia by themselves. This false information are lies about the colombian women and about the safety in colombia.
Professional guidance and support is absolutely necessary if you want to find a suitable life partner and if your safety during your colombia stay is important for you.
Also due to safety issues, visiting certain Latin countries alone is not recommendable, therefore the best solution to meet marriage Latin Women is through a Personal Matchmaking Service.
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