1: Don´t just go for looks !
If you want a true partner to build a relationship with and a family focus on her personality and background story.
Because this is not always easy to do by oneself, the best way is to hire a trusted matchmaking agency, experienced with Colombian women.
If you are seeking a family oriented relationship be sure not to select a Colombian girlfriend based just on her looks.
Sure, at first glance Colombian women are sexy and you can even find one that is both smart, caring and sexy, but if “sexy” is your only objective, and you don´t have professional support (from a trusted matchmaking agency or a trusted Colombian friend), I guarantee you will end up with the gold digger that will only require a credit card to stay “fun.”
Many Colombian women and Latin Americans women are desperate in solving their economic situation and usually have kids they had at a young age. So dont´t go into it believing she will be the perfect wife.
Is it their charm ?
Most foreigners are charmed by the personality of Colombian women because they are very welcomming to foreign men.
“Western Men” are seen like the perfect men among Colombian women.
Colombian women are charming experts and a gold digger can “easily hide her true intentions. It all depends were you look for your date mostly and what kind of support you have.
Only Colombian men, or other Latinos can look under the appearances.
Most Gringos are blind to see the true intentions, because they simply do not know these kind of ladies.
Gold diggers love “free dating sites” latin american / colombian cupid, badoo ect, because there isn´t any control or screening.
If you use common sense you can tell that if she asks constantly for money she is after no good. Unless you don´t have a problem with being a Long Distance Sugar Daddy, this where it should stop. If you can maintain a nice conversation on topics of interest, she is working or studying to progress on her own, you have found a Colombian woman worth dating.
2: Learn How to Dance!
If you want to Impress any Colombian woman you should have at least basic dancing skills.
Dancing is a cultural element in Colombia. It is just as natural as walking, sleeping or eating.
If you do not how to dance in Colombia, it´s like not being able to walk.
Dancing is important cultural element because this is only way how 99% of the Colombians can entertain themselves.
If you do not learn to Salsa in your youth, learning it as an adult is a pain.
You do not need to be the floor master. Just learn the basic steps and try to follow the rhythm of the songs. Just keep her tight to your body.
Latinos dance very, very attached, and this is why in countries like Colombia dancing is key in the seduction game.
No sitting!! Nothing turns down Latinas more than sitting on the table drinking all night.. Dancing terribly is better that not dancing at all.
Also make sure not to talk to much on the dance floor.
Colombian woman dancing salsa.
3: Be careful with Agauardiente
Aguardiente ( anis snapps) is Colombia´s national drink. It is literally means “hot water”. It’s very basic alcohol, be careful because some Agaurdiente in Colombia is adulterated. While most Colombians seem to be immune against adulterated alcoholic beverage, but when a gringo drinks this “hot water” can result in poisoning or even blindness. Colombians drink it in tiny glass shots and do not even taste it as it doesn´t taste good. It’s like drinking antiseptic alcohol.
If she drinks aguardiente, which is normal, try to do so as well.
Beware: Rejecting their Colombian National Drink can be seen as very offensive.
The headache the next morning will be horrible. This doesn´t happen with vodka or even tequila.
The best advice is to drink as little a possible or reject Agaurdiente at all and tell them that you never drink alcohol.
4: Make Compliments about Her Personality and Beauty
Colombian women will appreciate any nice comment from you.
Sometimes they seem to dress to incite and they are very sensual in their gestures. Compared to other cultures, physical contact is very normal and they might stay close to you. But do not interpret this as in invitation to bed them, try it and you will ruin everything. Physical contact in dancing is seens are normal, even natural not intimate.
5: Colombians Have an Obsession About Hygiene!
It is not like Colombia is one of the cleanest countries in the world. If you have ever been in Bogota you will understand.
But to have to know that Colombians have some kind of enchanced olfactory sense ( like dogs).
If no one cares about your manly sweaty armpit scent in Houston, Texas.
There is a possibitly that you will stink in Colombia.
Colombian women are very sensitive to these kind of “natural body odors” and the use tons of deodorants and cheap parfumes to mask their own undesirable odors.
Make sure to use a strong deodorant and a strong parfume !
Also make sure you dress well. In the U.S it is normal to dress very casual, but if you travel to Colombia for date women, leave the tourist shorts and sandals at home, shave well and dress your best.
In the U.S even a millionaire can dress in shorts and sneakers and no ones cares.
In Colombia people are rated by the way the dress ( and smell ).
6: Meeting the Family
Colombians have large families and keep close ties. This must be the strongest cultural disparity compared with Americans and Europeans. If you plan to take the relationship to the next level, you need to be liked by the family.
Just being a foreigner (from a first-world-country) with a 9 to 5 steady job, will guarantee that her family will love you and treat you like a god, because her family will have the hope that you will marry her.
Give them a gift, preferably some sweets from your country. They love it.
Dad would like to hear from your job, business or studies. He wants a nice stable future for her daughter.
If dad isn´t extraordinary rich (like in 0,01% of the cases) you don´t have to have any kind of special education of high income to be liked by dad. Remember, even with an American average salary you are seen as filthy rich in Colombia.
Mom is happy if dad, grandma and her little daughter are happy.
The best dinner conversation with her family would be how advanced your country is “The roads are perfect and everyone drives nicely… there is no homeless people on the streets… education and health are entirely free… .”